Friday, September 23, 2011

Will you do friendship with me?

For some people this can be a beautiful question (read GUYS) and for others a nightmare. I am of course in the later class. The probability of the question "will you do friendship with me" is directly proportional to your sex, location and surroundings. There was a movies Mujhse Dosto Karoge but for one it was just a movie and two "Mujhse dosti karoge" atleast is not grammatically incorrect and gross.

I really cannot count on my finger tips and for this case in my mind that how many times have I faced this question. Every time someone stopped me and asks this or every time when when someone left me a note which had this question I could feel my head throwing a set of words out "Friendship happens! Friends are for life! You become friends by knowing each other and you NEVER need to go and ask this question!" I wish I could say this but I know it would have sounded rude and so I had to opt for a lesser rude answer "NO". I believe it is not just my case, there are many sufferers like me who have wished for a better CLASS of suffering.

I understand that by nature's law boys are attracted towards girls and they should understand that even girls are attracted towards guys. The only thing is you will get a response if you are the right opposite and then you would not have to ask for such a silly question.

I just want to say that next time pop the right question or let the circumstances help you out.

Another bugging line after this question is "just friendship only" and all I can think of is "so what else can you". Here you should realise that it is not that a girl is thinking that you will take her advantage as she does not know you and so she said no. She said NO because :
1. She can
2. She can

There are many other ways to ask a person out, to know a person and to become good friends. People should follow those ways then popping this question. If you do not understand this now, you might understand this someday.

Till then , Cheers to beautiful life!

***The reason I could not write a gender neutral blog is my lack of experience about such things happening other way round and thus my lack of understanding.

Thursday, September 8, 2011

Powerful union

I believe that Indians were among the first ones to understand the physical attraction. The beautiful creation where two bodies were created keeping in mind that they are incomplete without each other. I like the Paulo Coelho's explanation which says there that there was just one powerful body and to reduce its power it was cut into two. When these two bodies combine they become immensely powerful. We Indians were aware of this we knew the power of physical attractions and contacts. We have worshipped Shiv lingam for ages and our old temples have carvings which give us proof of ancient erotic ages. We had discovered the secret of happy life. The world's best guide to the art of making love is Kamasutra which was written in India. We had discovered the formula to long , happy, stress free life ages ago. 

Sex is not need. It is natural. It is way of life. It is a part of life. If you run from it or if you are forced to be away from it unknowingly you get frustrated in life. This frustration leads to many other problems in turn. But once you welcome it with open arms and accept it as a natural feeling same as love, affection and hatred your mind becomes calm.

Many who have tried to convey this message have been opposed but that does not change anything. The fact remains.  

Today we can find many articles which say sexercise is good for your body, it makes you stress free and allows the happy hormones to flow and gives your face a glow. But to find peace in sex you need the right person, the right other half who will complete you , who has same urges as you do and who will make you feel complete.  By nature's law you will get attracted towards this right person and the bond will complete you. 

Everyone who says our traditions are against it might have different perception. According to me our ancient and medieval history explains the importance of the most natural feeling. May be we should try and get back to our roots to understand this.

Cheers to beautiful life!