For some people this can be a beautiful question (read GUYS) and for others a nightmare. I am of course in the later class. The probability of the question "will you do friendship with me" is directly proportional to your sex, location and surroundings. There was a movies Mujhse Dosto Karoge but for one it was just a movie and two "Mujhse dosti karoge" atleast is not grammatically incorrect and gross.
I really cannot count on my finger tips and for this case in my mind that how many times have I faced this question. Every time someone stopped me and asks this or every time when when someone left me a note which had this question I could feel my head throwing a set of words out "Friendship happens! Friends are for life! You become friends by knowing each other and you NEVER need to go and ask this question!" I wish I could say this but I know it would have sounded rude and so I had to opt for a lesser rude answer "NO". I believe it is not just my case, there are many sufferers like me who have wished for a better CLASS of suffering.
I understand that by nature's law boys are attracted towards girls and they should understand that even girls are attracted towards guys. The only thing is you will get a response if you are the right opposite and then you would not have to ask for such a silly question.
I just want to say that next time pop the right question or let the circumstances help you out.
Another bugging line after this question is "just friendship only" and all I can think of is "so what else can you". Here you should realise that it is not that a girl is thinking that you will take her advantage as she does not know you and so she said no. She said NO because :
1. She can
2. She can
There are many other ways to ask a person out, to know a person and to become good friends. People should follow those ways then popping this question. If you do not understand this now, you might understand this someday.
|A BETTER QUESTION|
Till then , Cheers to beautiful life!
***The reason I could not write a gender neutral blog is my lack of experience about such things happening other way round and thus my lack of understanding.